Episode 1. What am I Committed To?
Most people want to be successful in this life. They just do – and the idea of being an overnight success is a pretty seductive one. Problem is, it rarely happens that way. Because success requires …
Most people want to be successful in this life. They just do – and the idea of being an overnight success is a pretty seductive one. Problem is, it rarely happens that way. Because success requires commitment. So … what are you committed to?
It’s so easy isn’t it? Just to drift through life. We get up each morning, we have breakfast, and we do whatever it is we do. We come home, we have dinner, we go to bed, and we get up the next morning. You know what I’m talking about. We’re like a bit of driftwood just drifting through life without purpose, without direction. And before you know it, you kind of look at life and think to yourself, “You know something? My life is slipping by.” Sure, maybe it’s punctuated by the odd holiday or a promotion at work or something interesting or exciting, but by and large, life can be lifeless. And just like that piece of driftwood, all the colour gets bleached out of us and we end up grey and cracked and washed up on a beach somewhere. There’s got to be more to life than that, surely?
The life that I’ve just described is one that so many people relate too; it’s a life without purpose, a life without commitment. Today we’re going to take just a few minutes to unpack that, to explore what, if anything, we’re committed to. When we look at our lives and we ask, “What am I committed to?” There’s always something, that’s the way we’re made. There’s always something we’re committed to, it’s just that so often the things we are committed to, the things that drive us, the things that make us tick, they’re not satisfying.
I know people who are committed to shopping. We’ve all heard that statement, ‘born to shop’. There are some people who are addicted to shopping, glitzy shopping malls and people milling around and buying stuff and taking it home; so what? There are people who are committed to working, on the treadmill. It starts off being a great job and they end up working crazy hours and then we talk to them about it and they go, “Well, it’s just the way life is.”
I sometimes have coffee with my wife Jacqui at a little coffee shop that’s outside a day spa, which is one of these places where women get their fingernails done and spend a fortune on themselves. Some people are committed to luxury and comfort and pampering themselves. There’s always something that drives our lives, what is it? That sense of drifting comes because none of those things I’ve talked about are actually worth being committed to. They don’t give anything back in return, they might give a bit of a short buzz, a bit like having a sugar fix when you have a candy bar or a chocolate. You get a high but it only lasts a short time and when you come off that high you’re down on a low.
Consumer debt in the developed world is at record levels, and in the developing world it’s getting worse. Let’s just think for a moment about this whole consumer debt thing, credit cards, personal loans, mortgages that are being extended to pay for plasma screens or holidays. I was reading in a newspaper just the other day, as interest rates were pushing up, about a couple who are a million dollars in debt just for their house in the suburbs. Debt means we owe someone something. Owing money costs us money, and it’s called interest. So we pay for the privilege of being in debt for the things we’ve consumed. So not only do we pay to purchase them we pay because we bought them on the ‘never, never’.
The question is, consumer debt, when you look around at the things that people are in debt for, you say, “Are those things actually worth the debt?” Good question, come on, debt is such a way of life for many people that they have no comprehension anymore of being debt free. Debt free, free of any debt, what a radical concept, not owing anyone any money for anything.Now we’re blessed. Our household is by and large debt free and it’s a wonderful feeling. It gives me the option not to have to go out to earn a six figure salary to pay for all my interest but to be able to live on a minister’s salary; to be able to do what I’m doing right now. So often we spend money on things that don’t matter and we end up paying interest for the privilege. What’s the point of all this?
It comes back to what we’re committed to. Jesus had this to say,
Don’t store up for yourself treasure on earth where moths and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal but instead, store up for yourselves treasure in heaven where neither moth nor rust consumes and thieves cannot break in and steal because where your treasure is, there also your heart shall be. (Matthew 6:19-21)
Jesus knew we’re all committed to something. So often it’s money, it’s physical things that just won’t last. People buy it on three years interest free, and four years interest free, and by the time they’re not even using it anymore they’re still paying it off. But let me take that one step further.
Inside where we laugh and cry, in that deep place where we live, deep inside where we’re either satisfied or not, we can’t take those physical things into that place. They’re not allowed in; they don’t fit; they don’t bring satisfaction. We think they can, so we go and spend money but ultimately they don’t fit through the doors of our hearts, they can’t live in there. That deep place is a spiritual place. Worldly things can’t get in, and they can’t make a difference. That is so profound and that’s what Jesus was talking about. Have a think about it. What am I committed to? Go on, be honest, be brutally honest with yourself.
What is driving your life forward everyday? Is it the next promotion? Is it the next car? Is it the bigger house? Is it the renovation? Is it recognition? Is it something that ultimately will go away? Something that’s not a turn on, something that is not worth bowing your life down to? At the end of the day, does that thing really give you that deep satisfaction?
For the remainder of this week, because we’ve been looking over the last three weeks or so at living the life that God always intended, we’re going to look at four types of commitment because commitment is so important in living a life.
The first one is a commitment to love; love can be a tough gig can’t it? Some people are so hard to love and yet if you want to live the life that God always intended, God wants us to live a life of love. The most important thing to God is our love walk.
The second commitment we’re going to look at is a commitment to humility, to being humble. Not one of the top ten business buzz words is being humble but when we meet someone who’s humble, it’s such a delight.
The third thing we’ll look at being committed to is a commitment to hope. We all have hopes and dreams but we have to be committed to them to see them through.
And then the last thing in, Friday we’ll look at is a commitment to Jesus himself, things and people that are worth being committed to.
Living the life that God always intended is about living a life of commitment; a life of passionate purpose; having something to be passionate about that’s worth it – a purpose in life – a life with a purpose. If someone asked you, “What’s the purpose of your life?” What will you say? Me?
The purpose of my life is to bring abundant life to as many people as possible by sharing the good news of Jesus Christ in a way that makes sense in life. To see other people’s lives transformed and I can’t do that unless I have a commitment to Christ himself.
Come on, what are you committed to? What’s driving your life? What’s pushing you forward and is it delivering? Is it worth it? Is it bringing you that deep satisfaction or is there something more? Stick with us for the rest of the week.
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Pamela Leone
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